Two Bachelorette Parties?

Hi all,
I’m a bit overwhelmed here and can’t figure out what I want. I have been set on having my bachelorette in Charleston.. but I am having a couple of hiccups..I’m torn on doing what I want but also making sure I am being thoughtful of all
of my friends and trying to remember just because I would do x,y,and z for any of my friends doesn’t mean I can’t expect them to do the same.. here is my dilemma..
Have a destination bachelorette in Charleston I figured because half of my friends live on the East Coast (this is where I live too) and the other half live on the West Coast and regardless people would have to travel.
We are having a destination wedding in California.. so I figured it’ll be more expensive for my east coast friends to go to California for the wedding I’ll have a closer bachelorette spot, and it’ll be cheaper for my west coast friends to go to the wedding..
Do I have a west coast bachelorette and an east coast bachelorette and nix Charleston? So far I’ve gotten like 4 yes to Charleston and a like 5 maybes. I am also limited in time for the spring because myMaid of honor recently got engaged and set her wedding date for April a few months before my wedding, so the spring is very busy for us. So between her wedding and bachelorette, the best times for my bachelorette would either my beginning of March or end of April.. and our wedding is in June.
I was originally going to have my bachelorette in October to divvy up the costs because it is a lot, but now we are too close to October.
My head is just spinning and I can’t make a decision. I want to make myself happy, my friends happy, and be a reasonable bride and I’m just exhausted in figuring out what to do.
Any help is appreciate. Thank you!