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Kimberly
Devoted September 2019

Terrible wedding

Kimberly, on October 15, 2019 at 7:04 PM Posted in Married Life 0 9

Am I the only who feels like their wedding was a total mess? I ended up getting pregnant three months before my wedding.. found out it was twins.. which of course I have been growing very fast.. but I didn’t get to have “the bachelorette” party of a lifetime.. I don’t get a honeymoon because of the fact that the babies will come when we’re able to take off.. and on top of ALL of that.. my now husband was drunk before we were ever announced, our first dance was basically him bouncing up and down on his feet, I ended up having an anxiety attack.. he spent most of the night outside away from me smoking and drinking and complained anytime I asked him to come in because he was wasted.. we ended the night with him arguing with me about him not having any food when I watched him do everything except for licking the plate.. I feel like we spent $25,000 on absolutely nothing and I’m beyond upset about the story I’m going to end up telling my children.. All I wanted was to have the wedding of my dreams.. even though I had to sacrifice a lot with being pregnant.. I couldn’t even have that..

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Latest activity by Sexypoodle, on October 16, 2019 at 1:00 AM
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    Smiley sad I am so sorry it didn't go as planned and or as you hoped. Maybe one day you can have a vow renewal that would be as you'd wanted.
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  • Kimberly
    Devoted September 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    Maybe.. I honestly wish we would have just went to the court house and put the money in the wedding.
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  • Jade
    Devoted August 2021
    Jade ·
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    You have every right to feel the way you do! That is so upsetting to feel the way you do. I would recommend thinking of an alternative to help make things better. For example, maybe for your 1 year anniversary you can go on a nice vaycay! Something that just the two of you could really enjoy. I’d also suggest to make planning a bonding experience you do together! Ask him where he’d like to go if he could go anywhere in the world... then just decide where to go! Or do something along the lines of this. Since unfortunately it doesn’t help either of you to relive the past. It’s important to be okay in this moment, and make amazing future plans! I hope you find this helpful. Good luck to you & your husband ❤️
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  • 2d Bride
    Champion October 2009
    2d Bride ·
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    Honestly, by the time you're telling it to your children, it will be funny--assuming you're still married by that time. "Your father got drunk and wouldn't even come inside for his own reception" sounds a lot funnier if he's consistently been a reliable partner and father since that time.

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  • Megan
    Expert October 2019
    Megan ·
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    It's hard when things dont go to plan... but after the babies are here, you could ask your friends to do a girls night? My friends and I did Painting with a Twist for my BP, so maybe you could find something like that near you. And your husbands shenanigans may be entertaining over time - but I understand that its frustrating right now. I'm still cringing from cutting my husband with the cake knife at my wedding but I know it will be funny later.
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  • Kimberly
    Devoted September 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    Lol. Yeah that would probably be a good idea to get a night out
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  • Kimberly
    Devoted September 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    Thank you!
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  • Future Mrs. Danger
    Expert November 2019
    Future Mrs. Danger ·
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    Im so sorry you are feeling this way now, but from someone who has been married before and who had two kids.....none of this will matter in a few short months. You will meet the loves of your life (totally different kind) and you won't care about how things went at the wedding. Just wait. You'll see.
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  • Sexypoodle
    Master October 2021
    Sexypoodle ·
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    Yikes! Arguing, being wasted, anxiety attack, complaining, smoking & drinking outside, spending the evening away from you. Wow! That’s extremely unfortunate (among other things). So sorry to hear that was your wedding experience.

    My hope is that when your twins are born, you won’t even think about your wedding because they will consume your heart and minds.
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