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Splitting Accommodations for Bachelorette

Ashley, on June 29, 2022 at 7:33 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 6
Hi ladies! Quick question but one I am coming across as I plan my own bachelorette and attend others’ parties: do you split the weekend accommodations for an Airbnb evenly amongst all attendees, or only the actual nights they will be staying? I am hosting my party from Thursday to Sunday night, but some girls can only come for one or two nights. I am also attending a Bachelorette where it seems like they are expecting me to pay for the whole weekend, but I won’t be there for the last night of the stay. How is this traditionally handled?


Latest activity by Mackenzie, on July 6, 2022 at 9:53 PM
  • Jm Sunshine
    Jm Sunshine ·
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    I don't know that there is a traditional way to handle this, but the fair way seems to be to pay only for the nights one can stay. Thursday-Sunday seems excessive to ask of everyone especially if people are losing time and or pay from work on Thursday/Friday and because they're being up front in planning stages about not being able to commit to that many days.
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  • Alyssa
    Devoted October 2023
    Alyssa ·
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    We all just split the cost it was easiest that way. However prior to we were asked budgets and all agreed $500 not including our travel plan to the location. It was easiest to split it evenly across everyone for the lodging, shirts, and events. Obviously if there was a tour that you weren't going to be attending not pay for that.

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  • S
    Super September 2022
    Sarah ·
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    For mine 1 girl could only stay 1 out of the 2 nights but she still paid the same as everyone. I think it's just whatever works best for your group and what everyone is comfortable with. She offered to pay for the 2 nights so it just worked out easier I think.

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    Dedicated June 2022
    Whitney ·
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    There are probably folks who aren't staying the full time because they can't afford it. I'd recommend dividing it based on when people are staying -- even if it makes things more complicated.

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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    You only contribute to what you will be participating in. They need to divide the rest of the expenses among themselves. If they don’t accept that, then you don’t attend. Many people do not attend destination trips at all due to budget mainly and other reasons, and they don’t pay a dime toward it.
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  • M
    Savvy November 2022
    Mackenzie ·
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    I also think you should only contribute to what you're participating in. I have a couple girls coming to my bach who are pregnant so obviously we won't be splitting alcohol costs with them.

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