Shower/bachelorette/virus

Hi Mary,

I'm sorry you're having to go through this stress before your wedding.

How many people are attending/invited to your June bridal shower? Is there a critical date by which you/your FSIL need/s to know about cancelling? For example, if she's placing a catering order or renting any type of equipment or decor, she may need time to re-think the plan. Are people traveling to attend your shower? Have any of the guests expressed discomfort about attending? I assume your FSIL checked in with you because the event is only two months away. I know stay-at-home orders are being extended in many places, so there could be a concern that social distancing recommendations will not be lifted by then.

For your bachelorette party, I don't think it's rude at all to ask about the status. Your BM is a friend, so you should be able to ask her if there's a plan in place and, if not, what she's thinking. All the same issues above may apply (i.e., travel concerns, social distancing recs, group-size restrictions). Maybe you can make suggestions? If you have any specific expectations, I'm a big believer in communicating them directly.

Whether it's June or a later date, I expect that your family and friends will be super excited to celebrate you and your upcoming wedding when it's safe to do so.

I'm hoping for the best!

Thank you Amy!