My fiancé and I are sending savethe date notices this summer (or early fall) for our wedding taking place next July. A little background, my fiancé and I are in our 40s, so we’re a bit older, and we’ve lived together for years, but have a lot of hand me downs that are coming up on 50-60 years old. We haven’t registered for a whole lot, but are trying to replace some of our older things.
Our save the date notices have our wedding website on them, but now my mom (don’t ask why she even gets a say...she’s just like that) is saying I should hide the registry so people don’t feel obligated to buy anything. She has basically told me that she hates bridal showers, so i’m not having one. I told her that just because they’re there, people don’t have to look at them or buy from them...and that way we don’t have to constantly update our website.
What do you all think?