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Devoted October 2020

Registry Options? Traditional? Honeyfund? Mixed?

Chelsea, on February 4, 2020 at 12:28 AM Posted in Registry 0 11
Hi there! What are you doing for your registries? I'm a bit torn. Essentially, we have the basics covered between the two of us so there's no need that way for home items but...On one hand, there are some things that we could look to upgrade and/add that we've been wanting...on the other hand, we also wouldn't mind to have funds for different long term goals and experiences (contributions for home renovations, date night fund, honeymoon (we won't be doing a large trip right after the wedding, probably 6-12 months after), etc.)


Do we do a mix of both traditional and new school for both us and guests who may prefer to get the towels and kitchen aid mixer? Is one better than the other?

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Latest activity by Ali, on February 10, 2020 at 5:20 PM
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Honeyfunds of any kind charge a fee to transfer the money from the giver to the recipient. People know cash is a good gift. I would make a small registry if the things you guys want. People will either buy off that or give cash/a check. I honestly haven't seen too many people bring real gifts to a wedding anyway. Only 1 couple gave us a physical gift at the wedding. Most of our registry items were purchased for the shower.
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    Devoted October 2020
    Chelsea ·
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    Thanks! If there is no shower then I assume we'd just have everything mailed to us?
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    Master July 2019
    Hannah ·
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    Possibly, or they would bring the gift to the wedding. However, I think most people give cash/check in a card at the wedding instead of a physical gift.
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    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    My friend's registry at the moment has options for both honeymoon fund and traditional registry items off Zola. That's a good mix to have.
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  • mrswinteriscoming
    VIP December 2021
    mrswinteriscoming ·
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    I think a registry and wishing well is a great idea If there are some items you do want to purchase given that even with a wishing well there are still some people who bring gifts.
    In saying this, if you’re in doubt, a registry is the best way to go as it gives you the discretion to buy things as you need etc.
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  • Jade
    Beginner April 2020
    Jade ·
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    Blue Registry allows you to register for physical gifts, gift cards, experiences and money towards a honeymoon. I’m currently using the site and love that I can add any item from any website.
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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2020
    Taylor ·
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    I'm doing a mix. We have essentially everything we need for our house right now and would rather spend the money on an experience than fancy china that will get thrown in the back of a cabinet and used maybe once a year.

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  • Caytlyn
    Legend November 2019
    Caytlyn ·
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    I'm not a fan of "fund" registries. They're kind of tacky and why pay a fee for someone to give you a gift? If you don't want a ton of physical gifts, just create a small registry and once that's complete, people will default to cash gifts that you can use for whatever you want.

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  • Sherry
    Master September 2019
    Sherry ·
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    If you have no registry, you forfeit having a shower. We did a small registry on Amazon for bar accessories. My MOH threw us a Stock the Bar couples shower. The great thing about Amazon is that you can register for gift cards, upgrade some of your current items etc all in one place. Any of the money contribution sites charge fees. You could also not register anywhere and hope that people gift you cash.

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    Super August 2020
    Alex ·
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    We did a mix! We want the honeymoon stuff more (and cash), but some older people aren't comfortable with that. Our solution was both!

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  • Ali
    Dedicated September 2021
    Ali ·
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    Why decided by yourself when there are registries that offer it all?! Some guest are very particular and will get offended by a cash fund and not a physical gift but others will prefer it! Personally my fiancé and I are in the same predicament. Currently we're looking at a Zola registry which offers traditional, cash funds and allows you to pick from other stores too.

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