Premature vent session

As I sat here prior to writing this out I realized I really just want to vent. So here goes. In a nutshell, my husband and I are in a long distance military relationship; we’ve been dating since 2014 but long distance since 2016. So I feel like our circumstances are particularly different in a minor way just meaning it’s hard to visit bc of his current situation. Get passed that, fast forward to Dec 2019, when he did return home, we were still engaged and haphazardly running errands as our moms planned our very impromptu wedding ceremony (so beautiful) but honestly we didn’t really have a lot of time to ourselves. After our wedding we slept the entire day away, slept straight through New Years and it would’ve been our first ever New Years kiss lol. I was a little disappointed in that but no real complaints. However the next day, I had off but was still exhausted and we slept through that too. That follow day I had work and he left day after that. So we really haven’t had much time to bask in it.


So present day, we again have been spending most of our time w our families reason being, we don’t have our own place as I still stay w My family until he’s done w the military and he obviously doesn’t live here.
Now, my issue is, I’m still working and it’s like any time we could possibly get to ourselves (the 30 car ride from work when he picks me) he brings a plus one. Either one of our younger sisters. This may not seem like a huge thing and it’s really not, I just really would like him to understand I’m not being rude but saying someone can’t come w us to Walmart (example) is not me being rude, I’m just trying to squeeze the little time I get w him before I’m so exhausted before bed. Like he’s sitting home all day w my sister bc she hasn’t started her new job, and his sister he grabs fromSchool when she gets out. Like idk it’s just annoying and I constantly look and feel like the bag guy.
Either way, it’s not so much that I’m mad or upset, just bothered and wishing I could get more time to spend with my HUSBAND who I already won’t see for the next 4 months once he leaves in 2 more weeks.
I will say, I requested off for Valentine’s Day and I’m so excited to spend the weekend w him!!!! It’s our first v- day spent together snd also it’s my favorite holiday. Tho he doesn’t seem as excited as me as we all know, most men hate v-day. Idk why. But yeah I realized after I made myDecision to post that I just wanted to vent. My friends were busy when I called or single so they wanna talk about the should be’s and could have’s