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Devoted October 2019

Pregnancy Scare

Star, on March 19, 2020 at 2:34 AM Posted in Married Life 1 7
*So I may be pregnant. I鈥檓 scared.. 馃槥
& may or may not have had a miscarriage before.
I鈥檓 thinking I have because of countless amounts of research I鈥檝e done as well as talking to a plethora of others that have experienced what I have and of whom also received confirmed miscarriages from doctors etc. if anyone is wondering what I experienced I can pm you through here (since I鈥檓 still a bit curious as well and want some clarification on whether I really did experience a miscarriage years ago) Otherwise I鈥檓 more than likely not going to post it on this thread due to it having some sensitive info that some people may not want to hear. Nothing way terrible, just the usual things you hear from early miscarriages.
*Back to my original/main topic. I have been having pregnancy symptoms. But I鈥檓 also honestly not the healthiest and have been doing my best to get back into being healthy. Both my husband and I have. It鈥檚 TOUGH. 馃槅 And realized I have a bit of a hormone imbalance. Along with terrible allergies all year long, hypoklemia, asthma, the works I suppose. (I also have been put through the ringer as far as stress goes which can also mess with your body and hormones. Like before and during the wedding especially. Then right after the wedding I lost my job and now have a new one which is awesome and I鈥檓 so blessed and thankful however it鈥檚 a completely different schedule than my body is used to-I work a lot of night shifts- and so sleep is off schedule now as well. On top of natural anxiety that feels like it鈥檚 been worsened recently or have had worse days and some panic attacks I haven鈥檛 had for awhile)Don鈥檛 get me wrong I know that a lot of this is worsened &/or if not really brought on by not eating the best/drinking enough water etc but it still stinks especially when a lot of these symptoms along with my horrible period symptoms mimic pregnancy symptoms.
I also feel...different. Is this weird?I more than likely am not pregnant (believe it鈥檚 probably just my body and all the changes that have happened to it. Especially recently like my new job schedule鈥斺攁lso hope I鈥檓 not due to Having alcohol etc since I鈥檝e taken several pregnancy tests and they鈥檝e all came back negative) & again like I鈥檝e said I know we鈥檙e not ready to have kids. For me more than likely won鈥檛 be for awhile if ever. 馃ぃ I keep going back and forth on the having kids subject. I know husband wants them and there are days I do and I know I鈥檇 be a good mom, put the child/children first, & then before my own wants/needs.....but I just want to be married. And have as much married life experience especially time with my husband/selfish times as I possibly can. (Especially since him and I don鈥檛 really get much alone time as it is. & idk if it鈥檚 just me and/or possibly on top of that a cancer 鈾嬶笍 thing, but I LOVE one on one time with my husband and prefer that as my top priority then after that I prefer smaller gatherings or even one on one with my girlfriends over bigger gatherings. Just me?)
*I鈥檝e also had very strange dreams recently (even worse than the usual) and along with my info earlier of not really wanting kids now and for at least awhile so I can enjoy married life and my husband鈥攖here鈥檚 still times I鈥檝e just laid in bed sobbing because I wanted a baby. IDK. Am I going crazy?? 馃槀 or are there others out there who feel/felt the same as me?

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Latest activity by Sakhar, on February 20, 2023 at 4:53 AM
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    Devoted October 2019
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    A little foot note to this 馃槅 I tend to get off subject at times so I marked the most relevant of info with a * symbol. However if you want to read a bit more you鈥檙e welcome to. Sorry in advance.
    *Also something I forgot to mention earlier since my phone was giving me issues when I was typing the original post was that if I was pregnant before and had a miscarriage (may have been due to how early I was. ? Not sure) but I never received a positive pregnancy test during that time either. And I took quite a few during that point in time as well. Again may not even be relevant at the end of the day. Just thought I鈥檇 mention it just in case.
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    Devoted October 2019
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    Many thanks ahead of time 鉂わ笍
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  • Julie
    Savvy October 2021
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    1 in 4 pregnancies miscarry early on. Many 9f them never get a positive test. In that stage its too early- my OB called it a "chemical pregnancy." I've had a miscarriage twice, and got the surprise early in my engagement too. Its not selfish to not want to be- we had to postpone our wedding planning and all because I didn't want to be pregnant during the wedding. However l, now that I have a baby, I can't imagine life without him. My entire center of gravity changed. It'll be amazing having him with us for our big day- ring bearer of course!
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  • Kate
    Expert October 2020
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    Just praying for you Smiley heart What is meant to be will be. Hang in there, beautiful!

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
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    Usually if you鈥檙e pregnant enough to have symptoms you鈥檙e pregnant enough to have a positive pregnancy test. At home tests are extremely sensitive now days and can pick up a positive within a day or two of implantation. Do you have a regular period or know when you ovulate? A lot of times symptoms are due to the rise in progesterone after you ovulate and are there in pregnant and non pregnant cycles.
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  • Mrs.evans
    VIP October 2022
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    Hi just go to your doctor to confirm any concerns you may have. For your own piece of mind and then you and your husband take the necessary steps on what you want to do next. AMD yes I have been there as well too many times. But God did bless me with 6 children 3 girls 3 boys and now they are all grown now. So if he want you to give you a bless it will be beautiful thing. Now just to to your OB /gyn first
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  • Sakhar
    Just Said Yes July 2023
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    A pregnancy scare is a situation where someone, typically a woman, experiences anxiety and uncertainty about whether they might be pregnant. This can happen when they miss a period, have unprotected sex, or experience pregnancy symptoms. It is important to take a pregnancy test to confirm whether someone is pregnant or not. If the test is positive, they should seek medical attention and start making plans for their pregnancy. If the test is negative, they may want to consider using birth control to prevent future scares and protect their reproductive health. It's essential to prioritize one's sexual health and well-being, and to have open and honest communication with partners about contraception and pregnancy.

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