Personal Shower Advice

Like a lingerie shower?
Lingerie, massage oils, toys, the sky is the limit.

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Yes, thanks!

I suggest going to a nice intimates store and speaking to a sales person. They know their products very well and can guide you to the ones right for you. Also, please know that condoms are very personal to each couple. It may take awhile for both of you to find a brand and fit that works for both of you. Enjoy your party!

I think asking for lingerie or other sexy time items are fine, but I don't think I would ask someone to buy you condoms.

Oh honey, no-don't put condoms on your registry. Everyone expects newlyweds to do it, but that's a bit much.

I've never been invited to nor really even heard of a shower like this, so I can't help with suggestions (I do know that in some regions lingerie showers are common). But if "personal showers" are common in your circle of friends, I would ask them what things are usually added to registries for them.

View Quoted Comment Wonderful thanks 😊

View Quoted Comment 👍🏻😊 Thanks!

View Quoted Comment Lol. That makes sense. Thank you!

View Quoted Comment Great idea! Thank you!

We did something like this for my friend, who was also a virgin, as part of a bachelorette party. The host just shared bra/panty sizes and everything else was left up to the guests. It’s more fun for people to pick things they like for you and, since you don’t have any experience, they are more likely to get things that are worthwhile! Honestly, registries make sense for weddings bc you are getting long-term and high dollar items. If you don’t love a piece of lingerie, just toss it!

My friend had a lingerie shower and she just provided us with her measurements and we did the rest! She got things like nice lingerie, cute undergarment sets, someone got them some 'toys'. It really just depends on who is invited on what gifts are being brought! I hope you have a blast at your shower!!

To be honest, this sounds more like a bachelorette party kind of thing. Although I've never heard of someone having a separate "personal" registry for a shower. Whatever, you do, definitely do not put condoms on it!! If you're having a lingerie shower then you could provide your size for people to get you lingerie