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Nina
Devoted June 2019

Opening cards with cash at bridal shower?

Nina, on March 26, 2019 at 1:12 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 9
My bridal shower is in 2 weeks and I have been told by my mom her friends plan to give me cards with cash/checks. That is fine, however what is the etiquette for opening cards? I don't want to make anyone feel awkward but I also don't want them to feel excluded if they put their card in a card box and i dont publicly acknowledge it

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Latest activity by Jolie, on March 27, 2019 at 12:17 PM
  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
    MrsD ·
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    I would probably just skip opening cards! People will understand & get a thank you card from you.

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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
    earias ·
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    I had a few people at my shower give me cards with gift cards in them. I just opened the cards like I did any of the other cards that came with physical gifts, read the card, and said thank you - no need to mention the amount enclosed. Then write your thank you note thanking them for their generous gift.

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  • Nina
    Devoted June 2019
    Nina ·
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    For bridal showers do I read each card's personal message and who it's from? I have never been to one before
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  • earias
    Champion December 2017
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    You don't read the personal message out loud, just silently to yourself. I read the card and then said, "Thank you Diana, that was very sweet." Then she is acknowledged and the other guests understand the card was from her.

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  • Nina
    Devoted June 2019
    Nina ·
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    Makes sense thank you
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  • Maricarmen
    Expert September 2019
    Maricarmen ·
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    I would open my gifts and grab the card box or all the cards and just say, Thank you for everyone’s cards, I can’t wait to read them.
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  • Mandy
    VIP May 2019
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    I'd open the cards, read them to myself, acknowledge who the card was from then hand the card to whoever is keeping track of your gifts. They can open the card, see the amount/gift and write it down just in case it gets separated from the card.

    If there are quite a few - I'd just say "thanks for all the cards. I can't wait to open these with FH!" so you aren't sitting there for awhile opening cards.


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  • A
    Expert June 2019
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    I agree with this. Read the card to yourself, then thank the person for the nice card.

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  • J
    Master October 2019
    Jolie ·
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    Besides letting whoever is recording what gifts/cards are from who (so that you can write thank yous and remember who got you what), you don't need to read cards aloud. You usually just tell the person recording who it's from and say thank you to the gift-giver aloud.

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