My matron of honor - bless her heart - is working her butt off to help me plan, and I couldn't be more thankful! However. She's REALLY into Halloween, where as... I could honestly do without. Just a personal preference. I have never really been into it, even as a kid.
My wedding date is February 6th of 2021, so an October bridal shower is appropriately timed, in my opinion, and I could see her reasoning behind choosing Halloween; it's also on a Saturday in 2020, so it works out well.
I just don't like a party centered around the holiday. Honestly, I'd rather do one in November, and have it somewhat Christmas themed, which is my FAVORITE holiday. I just don't know how to tell her without hurting her feelings. A little part of me also feels like (and this may be a stretch) my MOH may also be planning it themed this way because she never got a bridal shower. I KNOW, I know, I know it sounds bad, but after knowing her for 15 years, it kinda seems like something that might happen.
How do I have this discussion with her? What do I say?