Hi! My FH and I are getting married April 30. He's having his bachelor party on the weekend of April 23. I had a bridal shower in March and nobody had said anything about a bachelorette party. I'm not much of a party girl so I honestly hadn't even thought about one until today. Two of my bridesmaids asked if I'd like to have one. The thing is, I have plans with my family this coming weekend (Easter), one of my bridesmaids already has plans for the weekend of April 23 (it's her birthday), another one lives 10 hours away and will probably not be able to come on such short notice since she's already coming the following weekend for the wedding.
They were very convincing when we talked earlier, and now I kind of want to have one, but I already know that not all of my bridesmaids can make it for whatever day we end up going with, if it gets that far in the planning process. I was thinking maybe we could go out for dinner and drinks one night but other than that, I'm drawing a blank on what we could realistically do. Or is that up to the bridesmaids to decide, what we do? Is it worth it to still have a bachelorette party with half your bridesmaids not there?
I like the idea now that they've put it out there but thinking about trying to coordinate with everyone is honestly stressing me out. If you have any suggestions, I'd love to hear them! Thanks in advance! 
