Hi WW
My bachelorette is in a few days and I’m just exhausted from planning the wedding, planning my bach, dealing with shady vendors that I’m just not excited for it. Need to vent.
Side note:I feel like covid has totally flipped this industry- it’s not enough that I’ve paid deposits for vendors but it’s also become a popularity game...like if you’re not a high paying client or you have no IG followers, you’re essentially being ghosted. That’s what I’ve experienced. For example, I’ve had my makeup artist cancel my makeup trial the night before my bridal shower because she had a bride reschedule her wedding that day. And I only found out because I texted her to ask for a time. From her IG, I’ve noticed that she posts a lot of clients with blue check marks and those with lots of followers. Luckily I haven’t experienced this with all of my vendors, but a few I reach out to- I get no communication. And then I see them post constantly on their social accounts!
My bachelorette- I had booked an Airbnb for only 6 people and then learned we had 8, so I cancelled that place knowing I wouldn’t be getting some money back. I was okay with that because I didn’t want anyone to not have a bed. So then I booked another place that sleeps 8. Well, over the course of the beginning of the year- I’ve had 2 girls drop out (both of them were starting back up at their jobs from covid and couldn’t ask for the time off). So I wasn’t upset over that, I understood. But...My future SIL just threw me the best bridal shower last week, it was amazing however....When I texted her yesterday to ask if she wanted to carpool with us to the bach- she told me that she’s going out-of-state to see her grandma and she’ll only be going Friday night. Her grandma is doing fine and she’ll be in town in a couple of weeks for the wedding. I asked her to still pay her portion which she was okay with, but I’m extremely annoyed and hurt. I told her I was bummed, especially because she’s known about the dates for awhile. And then she brought up excuses of spring break, and her flight change, and this and that. I’m beginning to think that she didn’t want to go in the first place so she booked this trip to see her grandma, so that she wouldn’t have the stay the entire bach weekend. I’m definitely going to call her and tell her all of this because that was just wrong! Like when was she planning to tell me she wasn’t staying the weekend, had I not texted her for the carpool?!And overall, I could have kept the original Airbnb. Me trying to be accommodating seems like it’s backfired.
I’m just exhausted from lack of communication and all the shade/ghosting. Has anyone else been going through this? I just need some honesty and transparency.
I know I will have a blast at my bach this weekend. But for now, I feel icky of experiencing reoccurring themes of flakiness.
Thanks for reading and being here!
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