Soooo about 3 weeks ago my maid of honor told me she wouldn't be able to come to my bachelorette party for financial reasons. I completely understand that and am not holding that against her. However, I am upset because my bachelorette party has been in motion since the end of last year since we are traveling, the party is in 2 months, and I just found out that she attended a friends bachelorette party that was just planned after she told me she couldn't attend mine. Due to this I've had to basically re-plan the entire bachelorette trip since another bridesmaid has gone MIA and MOH was the one planning the entire party. Not only that but she has now told me she's not 100% sure she can make it to the wedding. Honestly, I want to cut the friendship off. I don't feel as close to her as I did before. We were college bestfriends but I've changed a lot as has she since we moved away from college. Knowingly, her and I have drifted apart, but I've still always considered her a close friend. I'd like to send her a message telling her how what's happened has upset me, but I feel like I may be overreacting. Of course I cant force anyone to attend the bachelorette or wedding, and I wasn't upset about it until she continued to make plans for other peoples bachelorette parties after saying she can't attend mine.
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