Someone just posted about registries and it reminded me that I have an important question . So I sent my invites out and forgot to even update my registry. My fiancé and I are moving for shore duty in July and really don't want to accumulate too much. Does anyone have suggestions? I put a separate insert in our invitations with a link to our website and never mentioned a registry on that insert (just wanted them to have accommodation information etc.). However, they will see it on the website as a tab. If they decide to gift us something, I want them to have the option for a physical gift if they don't want to just gift money. Etiquette wise, would it be rude to just register for a few items at a couple of stores and also set up a "Moving/New Home Fund". I put in the description that we are moving for shore duty in the summer of 2018 (our wedding is March 31st, 2018). I'm not sure though that the money would be strictly for moving/new place but it might be for new items (applicances and appropriate things) when we get there? I don't want to misinformation them. I wanted to use Zola.com, because I know they don't have a huge fee for using their services, so my question is... has anyone tried knot.com for registry? How are the fees? What would you do in this situation and what are some things to ask for? I'm having such a hard time...thank you everyone!