Is it Bachelorette Party necessary?

Hi Erika,

For me it was just another excuse to have a girls getaway, we do this at least once every year. But no it's not necessary.

Don’t plan your own, that’s sort of rude. If one is thrown for you, go for it. But no, you don’t need to have one.

If you want one and someone offers to throw you one then go for it. If you don't want one though you don't have to have one.

You don't have to have one. I'm not having a shower but my girls want to have a Bach party. I don't drink so I definitely don't like a night on the town type of party. We're going to a comedy club and having a slumber party 😊

Do you want one? If you do, go for it. Whether your girls are organising it or you organising it yourself (with due respect, no one should come attack me with the "its rude to do it yourself " slogan). Because there's nothing rude in that. I believe in, if you want something go for it if the world wont offer it to you, you dont have to be deprived of something you want cos of rules, who set those rules!!

View Quoted Comment I've had a huge hand in planning my bach party. I don't understand how it's considered rude. Maybe someone can explain it to me?

I’m not even having one! Neither of us are having a bachelor or bachelorette party!

And I don’t think it’s rude to plan your own at all!!

View Quoted Comment "Etiquette experts" say that you shouldnt throw anything in your honor. Honestly, for ME, as long as theres food, I dont really care whos planning or paying lol
But I've never received an Etiquette Expert degree so what do I know *shrugs*

View Quoted Comment I actually told my MOH to get me involved and I'm happy I did. And MOH is happy too. I helped her save hundreds of dollars. Since I'm planning my wedding myself I know where n how to get affordable stuffs. Everybody is wearing a hat n she bought those hats for $22 each, and 20 people are attending. I found same hats in dollar store for a dollar (all 20 hats cost less than the price of one). She returned those she got and got her money back. I got a coupon for the spa and every girl is paying half the price n mine is free.
Now I'm convincing her to update me on the bridal shower n she's refusing, she showed me some things she's getting n told her to scratch most off, not necessary n waste of money.
Surprises are nice, but if I can help you save money that's more important to me.

View Quoted Comment 🤣😂🤣😂😂😂🤗🤗🤗. Etiquette experts degree is the right word. Lol

I don't think that I will have time for one! My girls all live out of town and are coming in 2 days before the wedding. There is so many things to do that I just don't have the time to think about going wild! I'm definitely not planning one. If they want to do something when they get here they will have to let me know but I am not mentioning anything!

View Quoted Comment Gwen I agree! I'm not having one because it was my choice. The entire party will go on a boat ride, do a outdoor concert the day before and a sip & paint. We wanted everyone to celebrate together ❤

View Quoted Comment Adoja I'm giggling to great comment 😂😂😂

I'm planning mine with my MOH. There will be about 30 women invited, that are all over the US so it would be hard for my MOH to do it alone, she doesn't know everyone. She's doing a Facebook invite to relay information. We are going to Palm Springs for 2 nights on a weekend, and staying in a rental house with a pool. Lots of time will be spent lounging and tanning, with bloody marys and snacks. I'm sure we will all go out for dinner one night (MOH will plan this). Then we are going to a drag queen brunch Sunday morning. My MOH is either going to have a mobile spa come to us, so girls can choose if they want a facial or massage, and have some DIY spa stuff laying out (face masks, nail polish, etc.). Another idea was having a private yoga instructor come one morning, and everyone do yoga together at the house in the yard. I don't think they are necessary, but they are fun!

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I planned my own. I found a really good deal on Groupon and asked a few girls - like “hey wanna do this? We’ll call it a bachelorette thing”. We are going away for two nights, wine tastings - $50 per person (includes lodging). I wasn’t going to do one otherwise, but it was a great deal and sounded fun

It’s not necessary. I am not having one (or at least I hope not). If someone wants to hang out with me they can any other day

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Hello Jennifer,

Thank you for your input. It is so great that you have your friends who live close by.

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Well there are 2 girls that would like to do it but I prefer something not that wild in which I would like to be involved in the planning since I don't want anything crazy like strippers!!!