I’m trying to get my fiancé on board for a joint bachelor/bachelorette party but he’s not very receptive. I love my fiancé’s friends and we always have a great time when we’re together. I’ve known a few of them outside of my relationship with my fiancé and they truly are my friends as well. A few of my bridesmaids are friends with his groomsmen as well. I just feel we’d all have more fun together than apart. I don’t want my fiancé to think i’m needy, or I don’t trust him. I also don’t want to overstep or take something away from him that’s important.