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Anjuli
Beginner August 2020

In Limbo on if we should postpone June 7th Wedding??

Anjuli, on March 21, 2020 at 2:30 PM Posted in Ohio Planning 0 7

Hello All!

We are set to get married on June 7th in Ohio. Of course because of this pandemic we are wondering if we should postpone our wedding to the fall for the safety of our family members? I know the CDC recommended the next 8 weeks for 50 people or less but we are not even in the worse of the pandemic yet for the U.S and the government even mentioned this could go well into July or August (even taxes were postponed until July!). There are many people saying this virus is not a big deal and everyone is overreacting but I don't think many realize this disease mutated from an animal to human to start infecting the human population. That means our genetics and immune system do not have to right building blocks or foundation to even know how to fight the virus because we have never been exposed to this strain, which is why there is a pandemic. It is the same thing that happened with the Spanish Flu in the early 20th century. The only difference is, we didn't take the same precautions we are now. We have a lot of older family members that have to travel far distances to be able to attend our wedding and we do not want them to end up being exposed to this virus even if it is starting to calm down in June. On top of that, I can't even get ahold of the venue to continue planning and working with them because they are only focusing on the weddings within the next 8 weeks, which completely messes up our wedding planning. In the end, we want to have all of our family there and have them arrive safely too. Luckily we have not paid for a honeymoon or anything so we would only be pushing our wedding back. All of our vendors are willing to work with us, at this point it is a matter of what is best for our family attending the wedding with the virus rapidly spreading.

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Latest activity by Erika, on April 10, 2020 at 11:41 PM
  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    I am so sorry you are dealing with this. Ultimately you have to do what feels right to you. It sucks that your venue won’t work with you right now and being stuck in limbo... like it would almost be better if your wedding was scheduled sooner so then you’d KNOW you have to reschedule :/ I’m really just so sorry you are going through this I can’t even imagine! Since you can’t even get a hold of your venue at this point I’d say just wait it out for now and see what happens over the next few weeks because there isn’t much you can do until you speak with them anyway. But I agree with you I really don’t think things will be 100% better by June... if I were in your shoes I would probably postpone to the late summer or early fall just to be safe. I would hate to get sick or have some of my guests get sick because of my wedding.
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  • Geramie
    Just Said Yes July 2020
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    Hi Anjuli,

    Former June 7th, 2020 bride here. I think your concerns are valid.

    For us, we decided to postpone our wedding to next year. We live in a city in California that is being severely impacted by the virus. Like you, we were also concerned for our guests - half would have to travel here, and many are older. Even if the rate of infection slowed down by then 1) it would still be risky and 2) things would need time to get back to normal.

    Not to mention we still had a few things to do before our wedding (I'm not sure how anyone is getting any planning done right now!), but since we are sheltering in place a lot of businesses are closed until at least the end of the month (probably longer).

    Anyway, we reached out to our venue on Tuesday to see what our options were and they completely understood our reasoning and allowed us to choose a new date at no additional charge. We also contacted our vendors and were able to keep 4 out of 5 for our new date (still waiting for a response from one of them) also at no additional charge!

    I'm so sorry your venue hasn't been very responsive, but it's great your vendors are accommodating. Your venue will reach out to you eventually, hopefully sooner than later! I would probably give them a week before trying to call or email them again (that's just me though).

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  • Anjuli
    Beginner August 2020
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    Thank you for being so understanding! Ohio just got put on a stay at home order for two weeks then they are suppose to reevaluate the situation. I have a feeling it’s going to go on for a little bit.
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  • Anjuli
    Beginner August 2020
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    Yes!! Thank you for not making me feel like I’m overreacting!!
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    You’re definitely not. Even though you may not be forced to postpone, personally I would probably still be nervous
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  • Laura
    Champion June 2010
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    Hi Anjuli! It's definitely a crazy time of stress and uncertainty for everyone! Right now it sounds like most couples are waiting a few more weeks before making any final decisions about their June Weddings, but being proactive about plan b definitely might give you more peace of mind!

    You're in our thoughts! Smiley heart

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  • Erika
    Savvy September 2020
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    June 6th wedding here... honestly I had a major break down let all my frustrations and tears out, you plan for your big day not thinking something like this would happen... no one could prepare for this. So... what were doing is getting married June 6th. With just pur parents then maid of honor, and best man. We are then having a celebration blessing and reception on sept 5th. (Hoping it's all over by then) and party with my husband. For me.. having a huge group with us to get married or even having a party isnt a huge deal to me. Yes.. I would love to have people all around us in the moment.. but realized it wont change our future together as husband and wife. So we will get married but postpone the party. Hoping to party later 😉 ALL of my vendors have put a 2nd date for me as well.. so you might want to call around asking for a second hold date 😊❤ very stressful time. But once all my vendors were set and ready for a second date it made everything a little better! In Limbo on if we should postpone June 7th Wedding?? 1

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