How to make it in a Marriage Life

All married couples face problems from time to time so I don’t think it’s realistic to want a problem free marriage. Couples counselings helps a lot in navigating how to handle problems when they arise though.

You don’t. Every relationship has problems whether you’re married or not. Learn to use effective methods of communication, put your pride aside, and utilize counseling if/when needed. You can’t avoid having problems, but you can work through them to the best of your ability.

Every couple has some problems! I highly recommend premarital counseling though. A good counselor will do a good job of getting you and your fiance talking about the things a lot of couples neglect until necessary.

Thanks because I want to make the Marriage work with my Fiancé' Because I love her and i'm afraid i'll lose her again

You will have problems. You just have to figure out how to deal with them effectively, and remember it's you and she against the problems, not against one another.

Thanks Becky

Unfortunately no marriage is perfect. People arent perfect and there will be things that just cause problems. Becky said it well. It's a partnership and you just need to be prepared and know how to work together to overcome problems.
Also learn each other's love languages and really work to meet each others needs!

Thanks I really Needed it

Communicate in a mature way - tell each other what you feel, think, what the issue is and what you'd like the solution to be, what goals you'd like to arrive to. And from there find some middle ground. I mean, part of why so many people fight is because they attack each other when really it should be about coming to a viable solution and hearing one another out.

View Quoted Comment I agree with this completely. Living on planet earth begets problems. That's just life. The important thing is learning to navigate them well together. Agree with PP about premarital counseling. Learn how to deal with the problems you will face together.

I second many previous poster friends. A married couple with no problems is almost unheard of. However, it depends on the nature of the problem which will determine how you'll tackle it. For more extreme situations, counselling would be a great outlet. For every day stresses, communication is key. Communication and honesty. Try not to fight one another. Learn to listen and give the other a chance to speak, hear where they are coming from, and compromise. Find a way to make life better and easier for the both of you. All the best

Communicate and be honest. No relationship is perfect.