My husband and I got married roughly 6 months ago. In that time, we've been in a major car wreck, he's switched careers, I've been going back to school while working, my best friend from high school died, my mother was diagnosed with cancer and also died.
The other day my husband mentioned that he feels repressed and that he wants a more open marriage in all areas, especially with being able to see other people. This is something he's known I'm not okay with and he'd told me when we were talking about marriage that he would be happy with just me. During the past 4 monthz he's been spending a lot of time on an online female friend. The conversations about thinking he's poly never happened before he spent all his time talking to her. I struggle with jealousy issues and always have throughout our 6 years together. Now he says he doesn't think I'll ever be happy with him and how he feels repressed.
I have no idea how to address this conversation and I'm so incredibly hurt right now. My mom died a month ago and we were very close, so of course I'm not happy. Does anyone have any advice on addressing this? He says I'm not the woman he married but I honestly feel like I've spent the last 4 months watching my life completely fall apart.
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