Groom’s Cake at Shower?

Typically the host(s) decide on the shower menu, but you can make the suggestion.

I don’t think it would be too much at all! That’s great you are thinking of ways to include your groom

I don’t think it would be too much, I think it’s a good idea!

View Quoted Comment Thank you ladies I appreciate the input.

I think that would be a good idea like you said a way to include him

I think it’s good idea to have a grooms cake at the shower.

I do not think it would be too much either

I don't think anyone is throwing me a shower but if we are able to do bach parties I wanted to make my grooms cake for that since we won't need that much cake at the wedding!

I think that would be really fun!! We served our groom's cake at our rehearsal dinner instead of at the wedding reception so it had more of a moment to shine! 🍰

You can do that. Usually whomever is hosting the party (your attendants more than likely) will provide a cake as part of the festivities. Typically if the groom's cake is not served at the reception, it is the dessert at the rehearsal dinner. Talk to the hosts since they will probably have something of their own lined up for you.

Thank you everyone! I really appreciate everyone’s responses.


I should have mentioned that I am handling the food and dessert to take off some of the workload on the person throwing it.