Groom at Bridal Shower?

I mean if he's okay being around many women then do what you want.

Co-Ed bridal showers are definitely a thing now. Some people take the traditional route and others go this way. It’s completely up to you two, however you want to do it is the way you should go!

In my area it’s customary for the groom to be there for all or part of the shower to mingle and thank people for gifts, so to me it’s totally normal!

My husband didn’t come to mine at all. No one was upset he didnt show up. And honesty asking him to attend didn’t cross my mind.
I have been to showers where the groom is there all of the time (as were his groomsmen), some of the time for gifts (no other men), and none of the time. No shower was better than the other. It’s just your preference. If you want him to come and he would like to join in I don’t see why he couldn’t.

I think it’s fine for him to attend, but I would make it a coed shower so that he’s more comfortable and involved.

Not weird.


For my shower, my husband hung out with my dad and uncles and then came back for some games and mingling and food ...so he wasn’t there for the whole thing, but didn’t just show up to say hi— he was definitely present and participating for some of it!

My husband made an appearance at the end of my bridal shower

Mine was there the whole time, and, except for a brief appearance by my brothers, he was the only guy there the whole time. It wasn't weird (for that reason).

I think its fine and wouldnt think its weird. After all your guests are bringing gifts for both of you

Mine will be at mine this weekend. He doesn't care if it's just him.