So a friend of a friend (who I have totally befriended) has asked me to join his bachelor party. It's in New Orleans and they have reserved a very swanky airbnb and all of the preliminary text communications seems like this is going to be fun......and fratty which I am ok with. However, I dont think everyone attending knows that another gay guy will be there. I'm totally gay happy who I am in my skin but no one knows I'm gay unless you ask. I'm very masculine, very athletic, had many past girlfriends, and came out much later in life. So sure, the bachelor who invited me and maybe 2 other guys attending knows i'm gay but the other groomsmen and other attendees who I will be meeting for the first time do not know I'm gay (to my knowledge). This shouldn't be an issue because I'm not gonna hit on them at all lol.
But I have subjective concerns that others may not like the fact that a gay guy is attending and may get uncomfortable by my mere existence at the party. Is this concern ill placed? Am I just in my head here? Please let me know your thoughts.
