Feeling left out

Hi so idk if this is even a right place but I’m starting to feel so alone at this point. My husband live in a place where neither of our families are near. We have two kids and one due in May. I’m only going to talk about this week bc it’s what important to me at this moment.
So we both play a table top game called DND. It’s like a board game, but without the board. Anyway he started a new job last summer and finally met some new friends who wanted to play. One person brought up “dudes only” so I kinda was ok with it because I had to watch the kids anyway. So we have the largest house, really only place to have these weekly game nights. This weekend’s, so today, they were going to for the first time do it at another guy’s house who lived pretty far away. Mainly bc they were all wanting a true “guy’s night”. All the other week’s the wives come too, and we don’t play just hang out while the guys are in the other room playing. But my husband was super excited to have this one time be “guy’s night”. And I was excited for him, I have a friend I was gonna hang out with to pass the time in the other town (where today’s game was supposed to be) bc I was picking him up and dropping him off (so he can drink however much he wanted to).
Well Wednesday suddenly the whole group cancelled. Abruptly. Saying not only no to this weekend, which was their idea, but no to any game ever. And apparently their problem was me. My husband even tried discussing their “problems” with me, and some were outright lies that my husband’s main friend “D” stood up for me bc he was there and stated I was never rude or never even there like they claimed. Once they pretty much admitted they made it up, they said nah still due to just being “too busy”. So I suggested two days ago “D” and my husband just go to “D”‘s house to have a boy’s night still. Since “D”’s wife was still going to her MIL. Well today earlier at work, my husband found out “D” wife would actually be there. And if she was there, she doesn’t take care of their 5mo old, D does. Which honestly I get, my husband does same when he gets home. But not if he had a friend over. So my husband wants to bail, and called to try and discuss it. Well the wife and D were like “oh no well we cooked you spaghetti and had dessert and several games (not video ones but like uno etc) laid out for us all to play”. And when my husband just told me this I felt so lonely and hurt. They were going to have a game night and I just wasn’t invited. So this compounded with how every chose to make stuff up about me, even D’s wife, just never D...I just don’t know if I have the right to be upset. The ONLY reason I was going to someone’s house in the other town was so my husband could drink and play video games with his friend. I only see and spend time with my husband once a week as is, so I would’ve loved to have this night just us and all. We obviously would be eating dinner as a family before he was going to leave...but they randomly made him an excessive dinner and didn’t even tell him. And what? Me and our girls were supposed to eat alone with their father?? And they could’ve just said we could’ve come too. Like normal ppl. The wife canceled her plans so she could hang out with them but I specifically was told I wasn’t allowed bc it was a boys night. Which I REALLY wanted him to have. Idk. Idk if I’m overreacting