I’m doing a surprise project for my husband’s quarantine bday- it’s a milestone one, so I wanted to make it special. He loves his family (local and all over the world) and is very loyal, especially to the local families. I requested if they could give a quick birthday shout out and text it to me. Obviously, we’re all on lockdown and can’t all be in the same room celebrating. The cousins he was brainwashed to believe were “bad, disloyal” growing up were actually the ones who responded back right away and are willing to drive by for a parade. The ones he’s loyal to (helps when ever they need him, remembers all their birthdays) never responded back to me at all. Herd mentality- I married into a mafia style family.
I’m just so upset for him but I know no matter what he’ll still love them and I need to know how to separate my feelings with his. That’s his family. I just wonder (as he matures) if he knows who really cares for him vs who pretends to care for him
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