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Taylor
Just Said Yes February 2023

Do i need to invite his sisters to bachelorette?

Taylor, on January 24, 2022 at 6:17 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5

I am in the midst of planning my bachelorette. My fiancee is from a family where his parents have been remarried a couple of times, so there are several sisters + step sisters (5 total). Do I need to invite them to the bachelorette?


A couple more items for context:

I've only spent a little time with his sisters, usually around the holidays as we live 10 hours away. I'm a little concerned I don't know how they will fit in with my friend group, as we are admittedly really rowdy.

Some of the sisters are not 21 yet.

Because he has so many siblings, we decided to forego a bridal party and do a Korean ceremony instead (this way we wouldn't have to choose between siblings and friends).

The big kicker: Some of them are not vaccinated and that is a huge no-go for me. Already making an exception at the ceremony to keep the peace.


Any help on navigating this?

5 Comments

Latest activity by Jennifer, on February 4, 2022 at 11:07 AM
  • Jasmine S.
    VIP May 2022
    Jasmine S. ·
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    This sounds like a lot of reasons not to invite them. A bachelorette is usually a small event; it only needs to be your bridesmaids and closest friends.
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  • Michelle
    Rockstar December 2022
    Michelle ·
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    Are you BFFs with them? If not, then don’t invite them.


    I personally would not feel comfortable doing anything with anyone who is unvaccinated. Even the ceremony would be a hard pass for me.
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  • Candace
    Super March 2022
    Candace ·
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    I feel like bachelorette parties are for your super close inner circle. There are no obligatory invites.
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  • Jacks
    Rockstar November 2054
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    You're not obligated to invite them.

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  • Jennifer
    Savvy June 2022
    Jennifer ·
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    I am inviting quite a few ladies to my bachelorette, but only people I am comfortable partying with. I am close with FH sisters, but there are several ladies (my age) going to the wedding that I don't know well enough to invite to the bachelorette party. Is the issue that you are worried about blowback for not inviting them or hurting their feelings? If not just don't invite then and don't worry about etiquette.

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