So my sis in law will be putting together a co Ed wedding shower for my Fh and I. My sis said around 40 people for the guest list, besides parents and siblings, I was thinking who all should I invite? Like they have to be a must on the list. I have no wedding party so there will be no wedding party to invite.
My grandparents have all passed away and his grandma is unable to travel so we did not invite grandparents. We invited his aunts, cousins, and sister-in-laws (not a co-ed shower so just the females). They live about 3hrs away. We only invited family from out of town that could possibly make the trip (if that makes sense). We didn't want to come across as begging for gifts. We only sent to one of my cousins because the rest would have to travel 8+ hrs to make it to the shower, which just isn't realistic. My aunt is also on the west coast. So I guess all that to say, we invited almost every local-ish female on our guest list. It ended up being about 45 people-50 people.