Co Ed Wedding Shower

As long as you're inviting your and your FS's immediate family, I think you're okay.

I invited my closest coworkers. I'm a teacher so invite those who are on my "team" at school. I also invited long time family friends. Other than that, just family, FH family, and bridal party.

My grandparents have all passed away and his grandma is unable to travel so we did not invite grandparents. We invited his aunts, cousins, and sister-in-laws (not a co-ed shower so just the females). They live about 3hrs away. We only invited family from out of town that could possibly make the trip (if that makes sense). We didn't want to come across as begging for gifts. We only sent to one of my cousins because the rest would have to travel 8+ hrs to make it to the shower, which just isn't realistic. My aunt is also on the west coast. So I guess all that to say, we invited almost every local-ish female on our guest list. It ended up being about 45 people-50 people.

We did local friends and immediate family for mine.