Hi everyone,
My wedding date is 5/12/23 and I am just at the beginning stages of planning. I already have my bridal party together and my sister is my maid of honor but my fiance and I are paying for about 80% of the wedding ourselves and I don't really come from money. Most brides I know had their mom pay for their shower, and my mom isn't financially able to do that and I don't see my sister being able to do it on her own. But is it super tacky for me to pay for it myself if it's supposed to be thrown for me? I know my sister can ask my other bridesmaids (I have 5 besides her) to chip in, but if they can't, I don't want to not have one at all.