Bridal shower

I dont think you're obligated to invite anybody to the bridal shower. But it could be a nice opportunity to meet them if they even want to come.

Are they invited to the wedding? If so you should probably invite them. It'll be a nice way to meet them. Will there be other people from FH'S side of the family there that they can sit with?

View Quoted Comment No. His parents have been divorced since he was 3. The cousins are on his dads side and the only other female relatives are on his moms side so nobody that they would be close with

View Quoted Comment Oooh, that's awkward. Then I'd it's ok not to invite them.

Since they're not invited to the wedding, feel free to not invite them to your shower!

View Quoted Comment They are invited to the wedding

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Oh, I misread the comments! Sorry!

It’s really up to you, but it could be a nice way to meet her. Honestly, you never know when a family relationship could start; my FH’s cousin who I’ve never met RSVP no to our wedding (online after save the dates were sent), I sent her an email back back, thanking her for her well wishes & wishing her & her husband congrats on their upcoming baby, she sent us a gift card, I sent her some baby onesies, and in November we have plans to meet up when we are visiting FH family. FH has never been close to this cousin, so it was completely random that we started talking.