Bridal shower

I think September or October is good. November and December are so full of holiday things.

Mine is 3 months ahead of my wedding date.

Our wedding is August 9th, and our shower was May 5th. So about 3 months before. I also agree that September or October would be fine for December wedding. November starts getting into holiday parties and vacations.

Mine was five months before because that was the best time to do it

I did mine in March and my wedding was June. It was moreso cause that worked with everyone's schedules in terms of me and my hosts

My shower is this upcoming weekend, and I'm getting married on Sept. 28th. I don't think Sept. is too early for a Dec. wedding

I think it's just whenever is most convenient for the person throwing the shower, honestly Yours isn't too far out - plus you'll probably have better weather. Mine was in late August for my October wedding, but we originally wanted to do June (just couldn't get the plans in order that fast)

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My shower is July 27, and we are getting married September 20, so we are about 2 months out

I think 4 months is fine.

Wedding is August 8. One shower is July 19, one is July 28

Mine is July 27 & I'm getting married September 21

My shower was June 30 and my wedding is July 20. My MIL went to a shower in May for a wedding in September. I don't think there are really any strict rules.

My shower is August 10th for a September 28th wedding. As PP have said because your wedding is around the holidays it wouldn't be bad to have your shower in Septmebr or October before everyone gets really busy.

Add on question: who is everyone inviting?

Mine was in May for our July wedding!

I think that's more than fine. Mine is 2 months out from the wedding.

My shower is July 20th and we are getting married October 5th 🙂

Mine is about a month out but we also considered a date about two months out as well. I think given the fact your wedding is around the holidays, about three months out is completely fine.

Mine was in June, my wedding is in September. I think September for a December wedding makes sense, especially when accounting for holidays.