Bridal shower

I would just include an insert card in the envelope, stating that since your daughter is flying, any gifts should be mailed and a picture brought. Unfortunately, I think regardless of what you do, you're probably going to end up with gifts there that need shipped/delivered

"We kindly request that you send any gifts directly to address on the registry. As much as (insert daughter's name) would love to open your gifts in person, logistical constraints will make transporting gifts difficult. If you choose to buy a gift, we ask that you put a print-out of the gift in a card. We look forward to celebrating with everyone!"

Something like that should work!

View Quoted Comment Thanks, that is exactly what I wanted to say, just didn’t know how to word it. You just saved me.

I think she can also set up her registry to offer that everything be shipped to her house vs. purchased outright. I'm sure it depends on the registry, but my FH's cousin lives out of state and registered at Crate and Barrel and when I went in to buy her gift, they told me they would take care of shipping to her home as requested by her.

View Quoted Comment Thanks Allie. I will give her that option

If gifts are to be sent to the couple’s home, skip the shower (which is a gift giving/opening event) and have a party/luncheon instead.


The registry should have info on if the item is shipped or not, but if you have any guests who do not shop online and only do so in person, they will not read those details.

What Allison suggested is perfect!!

And I love your idea of including a picture of the gift so that your daughter still has that experience!

View Quoted Comment Thank you, I had seen that done at a previous shower and thought it would be a great idea