Bridal shower

You have at least 8 months before this really even needs to be thought about. I personally would just skip the shower unless someone offers. You'll get mixed feedback here and some will say they think it's fine. I think it's really distasteful to host an event for yourself that's all about receiving gifts. If you just want to get your girlfriends together, I think a bridal luncheon would be more appropriate.

I definitely wouldn't ask anyone to host a gift-giving party for you nor would I host it yourself. Wait to see if someone asks and just enjoy wedding planning in the meantime.

Due to the circumstances I personally feel like you should talk to your friends about it! express this same question to your MOH and your MIL see what they say.

Hey Carrie!

It’s so kind of your uncle and his wife to offer to pay for your dress. That is so generous.

I would definitely wait a while and see if someone close to you offers to host a bridal shower for you. Traditionally, brides do not plan their own shower because of the gift-giving nature of the event.

I only have one other aunt and she doesnt really work and doesnt have alot of money, so I know she wont. Im an only child so no sisters or brothers. My MOH & MOH are close to me so I might be ok, it has just been one of those things I have been wondering about.