I'm literally caught in the middle as to whether or not I should have a bridal shower or not. My initial thought was no seeing as 1) my fiance and I already live together and 2) the thought of all of these people staring at me while I open gifts just makes me cringe. The few ladies I've spoken with on my side of the family find it silly to have one since we already live together and it may come across as if we are just looking for gifts. My fiance and his side of the family are saying no you really should have one. Now I'm wondering if I don't have one will I regret it? Anyone been in this situation before, any advice? Also, any advice on how to break it to those who are against it, one of those people being my mom, since she would normally have a say in throwing it? Thanks in advance!