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Lindsey
Just Said Yes September 2019

Bridal Shower a week before the wedding? Thoughts?

Lindsey, on June 11, 2019 at 8:34 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 12

Hi Everyone,

I'm getting married in September and My mom has been given the task to plan/host the bridal shower. I'm currently in Grad school and will not graduate until August, so I had mentioned that the shower would need to be thrown sometime between graduation and the wedding. Since the venue that we chose has a wedding the day before mine, we are doing the rehearsal & dinner at my parents house the day before the wedding. For that reason, my mom wants to throw the bridal shower the weekend before the wedding so that she can clean the house after the party and have it still in cleanly order by the rehearsal.

I'm worried that I will have a ton of stuff left to do for the wedding the week before and having the shower then may not be the best idea. What are your thoughts?

12 Comments

Latest activity by Valentina, on June 11, 2019 at 12:35 PM
  • Andrea
    Super October 2019
    Andrea ·
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    I think it’s ok. It’s just a few hours and you’ll be able to get back to wedding planning pretty quickly.
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  • Mrs. H
    Master September 2019
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    I think this will be fine and maybe even a nice (welcomed) break from the stresses of the week leading up to your wedding. As PP said, it's only a few hours

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  • FutureMrsKC
    Master January 2019
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    I think it's totally fine. If you stay organized, you won't have as much to do as you think you will. Showers are only a few hours long, so if it works out, I think a week before will be great and that will get guests amped up for the big day!

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  • Iva
    Super September 2019
    Iva ·
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    My bachelorette is a week before the wedding & I don’t see an issue with it being stressful. I think it will actually be nice to start the wedding events a week ahead.
    I would wonder more if your shower guests will be ok to bring two gifts within one week.
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  • Lindsey
    Just Said Yes September 2019
    Lindsey ·
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    I think that's another thing that I was wondering as well. I'm not sure if people are actually going to be okay with bringing two gifts within one week. At the same time, I'm not sure it really matters. Yea it would be nice for people to bring gifts, but I really just am happy people want to come and celebrate.

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  • Iva
    Super September 2019
    Iva ·
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    Then go for it & have fun!
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  • Rockie
    Devoted June 2019
    Rockie ·
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    My only concern would be guests bringing gifts. If I was a guest I would still want to gift you the same amount for both events I normally would but it may make it hard on my wallet. I would still do it assuming I love the bride but it may put some of your guests in a position where they feel aweful they can’t afford two gifts in one week and either a) just accept the impact on their weekly budget or b) feel a lot of guilt. Even if you arnt concerned about receiving gifts or not, it may make your guests feel pressure
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  • M
    Legend June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I think it'll be ok. It'll be a way for you to relieve some stress and relax for a few hours Smiley smile
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  • MOB So Cal
    January 2019
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    If your mom is hosting both the shower and the rehearsal, I'd do whatever works for her. That's a lot to take on.

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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I would ask her to do it a little earlier if possible. My shower was 2 months before the wedding and I'm SO happy it was. We were able to focus on the shower and not the wedding.

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  • Heather
    Just Said Yes April 2020
    Heather ·
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    That seems like a tight turn around, and considering people usually bring gifts to both, I'd push the bridal shower back a week.

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  • Valentina
    Devoted September 2019
    Valentina ·
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    Ummm I thought the point of a bridal/wedding shower was so you could get the gifts out of the way🤔. Our family weddings no one brings a gift to the reception, but they do leave monetary gifts and cards. Something to think about now that I’m marrying outside of my cultural background. I’m not expecting gifts but maybe I should designate an area in case his side brings something 😐
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