Bridal shower 10 months before??

Also many people have already bought gifts for the shower that was cancelled and some have sent them to our house.

I would not have a traditional shower anytime soon and I’m not sure if restrictions will even be lifted enough to do so. I also wouldn’t want a shower this far out from my wedding. Maybe you could do a virtual shower closer to your wedding date.

I think that is way too far in advance.

Just popping in because I read “Upstate New York”! My FH & I live in South FL, but he’s originally from NY (a small town called Rome) so whenever I see those words, I get so excited lol. We were actually thinking about having our engagement party there - around Syracuse or Adirondacks area - since that’s where the majority of our guests live.


Anywho. The “official” rule for when to host your bridal shower is 2 months prior to the wedding, which in my opinion is too close to the big day! Especially if you plan on organizing an bachelorette party too. Personally, I’d say a shower can be done 4-6 months prior to the wedding. 10 Months prior should be something like the Engagement Party. Best of luck!

Maybe you can conduct the virtual shower??? I would it wouldn't be werid to do this way in advance and all gifts can be sent to you house...