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Allie
Master August 2019

Bam- no pics yet

Allie, on September 25, 2019 at 8:34 AM Posted in Married Life 0 17

Hi WeddingWire! It's been a very busy and eventful month since I got married. I wanted to do a non-pro BAM a lot sooner, but life has been crazy. My wedding was absolutely amazing. I will try to get on and post some pictures after work tonight. We left for Ireland the day after the wedding. The day we got back, my husband unexpectedly quit his job. He had good reason for quitting, but I just wish he would have waited until he figured something else out. My life has been a crazy mess since then. He got another job, but it is all the way across the country and he is leaving Saturday. I've been sick, upset, depressed, you name it. Please send some thoughts and prayers our way. I had to take a sick day at work yesterday because I just couldn't stop crying. I haven't been able to find work where his new job will be, and not working is not an option. I also don't want to move away from my family. As some of you may remember, we had just bought a house and were already doing long distance, but it was only a 4 hr drive. Luckily, we found a reliable person to rent our house to cover the mortgage but now the long distance will be 1500 miles. I'll try to pop on as much as I can, but I'm just hurting right now. Sending lots of love and well wishes to all the September and October brides and grooms.

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Latest activity by Naikesha, on October 1, 2019 at 5:37 AM
  • Cyndy
    Master May 2019
    Cyndy ·
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    Awwww sorry things are working out this way for you. I can’t imagine being that far away from my husband but there is FaceTime now and hopefully something will come up for you as a job opportunity soon. Good luck.
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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    I'm so sorry you're at a tough place in life right now, you never know when life is going to hit you with the hard times and I hate that this happened right after your wedding and honeymoon. Try to remember that even though it sucks right now, it's only temporary. I'm so glad that your wedding was amazing and I hope Ireland was too! Sending you and your husband good wishes and happy thoughts. Smiley heart

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  • M
    Legend June 2019
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    Congratulations 🎉
    Sending you positive vibes and well wishes
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  • Ivy ORP
    VIP October 2019
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    I'm so sorry you're going through all this. Sending well wishes for a quick and happy resolution.

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  • Taylor
    VIP October 2020
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    I'm so sorry! Where is your husband moving and what field of work are you in?? Things will get better. Not the most ideal situation but y'all got this!!

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  • Diana
    VIP December 2019
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    Congratulations on your wedding!! Also sends lots of hugs 🤗 and prayers!!
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  • MrsD
    Legend July 2019
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    I'm so sorry for what you are going through! I imagine when you guys make it through this, upcoming problems/issues will be a lot easier to deal with since this was thrown at you right out of the gate. I hope you have family & friend support around you too!

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  • Catherine
    VIP November 2019
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    I'm sorry you are going through all of this so soon after the wedding. The stress is just piling up on you. The emotional roller coaster won't be easy but never forget you have family and friends that love and support you! I hope everything works out quickly and smoothly for you. congrats on your wedding Smiley heart Looking forward to the pictures!

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  • Cher Horowitz
    Master December 2019
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    I'm so sorry all this is happening to you! Sending hugs and well wishes your way Smiley heart

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  • Meghan
    Master October 2019
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    I am very sorry to hear that you are going through so much right now. But on the other hand, I am happy to hear your wedding and honeymoon went well! Try to stay positive about the move. I see moving as a new adventure that you and your new husband get to take on together! A new city you get to explore and make memories in and new friends you get to make as husband and wife. This could end up being the best thing that has ever happened to you, you just don't know it yet. Good luck on your job hunt and the move and try to keep you head up!

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  • EmAbrams
    Devoted August 2019
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    Date twin!! I was wondering if you were okay! I wanted to reach out and see what happened with the job interview right before the wedding but I have had a rollercoaster of 3 weeks myself. First off, Congratulations!! I can't wait to see pics. Secondly, everything will work out. Keep your head up and don't be afraid to reach out to friends and family to ask for help. Good luck with everything and keep us posted!

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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
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    He is moving to Phoenix Arizona and I'm a mechanical engineer.

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  • Allie
    Master August 2019
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    I'm trying to be okay emotionally but it's not easy. I actually didn't get the job that would have allowed me to move into our new house, but that didn't matter anyway since my husband quit his job and isn't in that area now anyway.

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  • Lizzy
    Super October 2019
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    Wow I'm sorry you are going through this during what should be a happy time. I did a quick scan and Phoenix has 244 listings for mechanical engineers. I know it's tough right now but life has a way of working itself out
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  • Maria
    Super October 2019
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    Aw Allie I'm so sorry to read this! You two will come out of this stronger than before! I hope things calm down soon and you can still enjoy some of your newlywed bliss. Congratulations on what I'm sure was a beautiful wedding - can't wait to see pictures!

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  • Nicole
    Super October 2021
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    Congratulations on the wedding! I'm so sorry to hear you're having so many stressors. Lean in to your hubby right now for all the support. I'm sure it'll all work out and your relationship will be stronger for it Smiley heart

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  • Naikesha
    Super September 2020
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    Wow sorry to hear this is happening sometimes you have to go through bumps and struggles but have faith everything will work out!

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