A few weeks ago I was invited to a bachelorette party and initially planned to go, purchased a gift and card. I wasn’t able to make the party for personal reasons and the bride completely understood. Now I’m wondering what I should do with the gift I bought. It is in bad taste to bring it to the wedding, in addition to their wedding gift? I don’t she her regularly, just a handful of times throughout the year so meeting up before hand is unlikely. What have you done in this situation? Would the bride and groom think it’s weird?