Hi all! So I got engaged on this past Thanksgiving and picked my bridal party on February 2. They asked me what I wanted to do for my bachelorette party and I told them if they’re willing to come I wanted to do a destination bachelorette party, preferably to Las Vegas. They were all down but then when I started finding hotels/air bnbs/ flights everyone started singing a different tune. One bridesmaid is engaged as well but has no date, venue, nothing. I told the group I wanted to do the bachelorette party in September being as though I’m getting married October 19, she told me that she is looking to get married this September and may be on her honeymoon. So I changed it to August one bridesmaid tells me today that she cant go because that’s her mom and sisters birthday and she may be going on a trip with them, man of honor is excited to go, 1 other bridesmaid is saying she will go, and other bridesmaid has a total of 5 kids and just had twins and saying she wont be able to find a baby sitter until Friday and we were going from Thursday-Monday so she says it’ll be a waist for her to go because she cant come out until that Saturday , and the last bridesmaid isn’t even responding to the group text messages. I am starting to feel like no one gives a damn about me and this wedding. Please tell me if I’m being selfish or not? I’m gonna sleep on it and think about it over the weekend but I’m thinking about cancelling the trip and just doing a weekend thing here in DC where we live.