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Just Said Yes December 2018

Bachelor party no no

Shannon, on December 11, 2018 at 7:24 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 10

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So we got married in Vegas on Sunday. On Friday night I had my bachelorette party. On Saturday my husband had his bachelor party. They ended up at a strip club. I knew this would happen, I mean it’s Vegas. My fiancé got a lap dance his friends paid for, another ok it’s Vegas. He told me about it and told me how uncomfortable he felt.
My best friend called me the next morning to tell me her husband spent $500 at the bachelor party and disappeared for three hours afterwards and didn’t come back to their hotel until 8 am. I told her he was probably off gambling. I talked to my husband about it later and he told me my best friends husband spent $500 because he got a private room with one of the strippers, but he didn’t know anything else. I feel so bad, but do I tell her? Is it my place to? I don’t know if that’s why he disappeared for a few hours afterwards. I know one of his other friends went home with one of the dancers. What do I do?

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Latest activity by Jose, on February 18, 2019 at 2:18 PM

Champion June 2019
Kenisha · on December 11, 2018 at 7:32 PM
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What is there to tell? You don’t know anything.
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Laura · on December 11, 2018 at 7:45 PM
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I agree with Kenisha, if you don't know for sure I wouldn't say anything. I had a friend who was a stripper, and a private dance is usually just a dance. Not all dancers take it any further.
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Mary · on December 11, 2018 at 7:47 PM
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This right there. Word of advice that will go a long way. It isn't your place nor your business. I often see situations like this turn south real fast. The friend rarely leaves the husband/boyfriend and she will hate you. Very few people are rationale when it comes to these situations. Don't do it.
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Rachel · on December 11, 2018 at 8:16 PM
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The most you can say is that he spent $500 on a private room. I would personally want to know whatever you knew. Depends on what kind of person you’re friend is?
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Tamara · on December 11, 2018 at 8:18 PM
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Right! I agree with this.
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Hunter · on December 12, 2018 at 1:36 AM
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I'd tell my friend this and tell her to ask her husband for the details.
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Nisa · on December 12, 2018 at 9:56 AM
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I know it sucks for her but unfortunately, it's not your relationship, and you don't know what happened. He really could've just gotten a private room for a private dance (most likely) or he could've went home with one of the dancers like the other friend you mentioned (probably not likely). Either way, it's not your place and if you get involved it could blow up in your face. Just enjoy your time with your hubbie as newlyweds. Congratulations
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MrsD · on December 12, 2018 at 10:41 AM
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I wouldn't tell her. In these scenarios, it never ends up well for the messenger. One, the husband will get mad at your husband and it will change their friendship. Two, inevitably her husband will convince her you are lying or wrong and it will change your friendship with her.
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Jennifer · on December 12, 2018 at 4:11 PM
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I would never not tell my BEST FRIEND something like that, unless my H asked me to keep my mouth shut .You don't know anything besides the private room, that's what I would tell her. If she finds out from someone else, odds are one of the other guys there spilled it to either their wife or gf and she will find out, then she could be hurt you never said anything. Unless you are prepared to lie and tell her you were not told, I would say something.
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Jose · on February 18, 2019 at 2:18 PM
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I will give you a guy point of view. All you know is that the guy spent $500 on a private room nothing else, because if you start to talk you might change the story or put things in the other girls head about her man. I don't want to be rude but just mind your business and let them handle their situation, DO NOT get involve.
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