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Am i wrong?

Jocelyn, on July 17, 2020 at 4:36 PM Posted in Parties and Events 0 11
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So all of our planning is postponed due to covid but before we had my bachelorette planned and I had 9 girls including me. Everything was great until someone informed me that my future husbands best mans girlfriend wanted to come.. now I’ve only met her ONE time. Do I have to invite her? Is it rude of me to tell her no? My fUture husband seems to think so...

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Latest activity by Alexandra, on July 18, 2020 at 8:10 PM
  • Melle
    Rockstar June 2019
    Melle ·
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    I don’t think you need to invite her. This isn’t the kind of activity that everyone has to be invited to
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  • Cassandra
    Dedicated March 2021
    Cassandra ·
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    From what I know about bachelorette partys it is normally just the bride and her bridesmaids, not girlfriends of other bridal party members. It is the bride celebrating with her closet friends before she becomes a wife. You shouldn't have to invite someone you barely know.
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  • Dj Tanner
    June 2021
    Dj Tanner ·
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    No, she’s not a part of your wedding. And she’s not even a friend of yours. You have zero obligation inviting her along.
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  • Christina
    Dedicated January 2021
    Christina ·
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    You're not wrong. Your bachelorette party is about you and your friends not every woman invited to the wedding. I don't understand why she even wants to go.

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  • Jocelyn
    Savvy May 2021
    Jocelyn ·
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    That’s what I was thinking! It would be different if I was friends with her but I’m not.. I don’t dislike her but still I barely know her
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  • Jocelyn
    Savvy May 2021
    Jocelyn ·
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    Ok! Thank you
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  • Jocelyn
    Savvy May 2021
    Jocelyn ·
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    Exactly! I don’t wanna seem mean but I wanted it to just be close friends
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  • Kimberly
    Expert October 2019
    Kimberly ·
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    I would say no. It's a party for you and your friends. Your best man's gf isn't included in that. Mine was my bridal party and my cousins.
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  • Eri
    Super October 2020
    Eri ·
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    If I were in her position, I wouldn't even want to come because I wouldn't know anyone! Your bachelorette party is yours, and you are not rude for not inviting her.

    I'm not even having one, but I would not be inviting our best man's wife to mine if I were.

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  • Griselda
    Dedicated July 2020
    Griselda ·
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    No it is not rude since you barely know her!!! She should understand
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  • Alexandra
    Dedicated March 2021
    Alexandra ·
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    No, I don’t think it’s rude. Your bachelorette party is a fun time for you, your friends and family. If you have only met her one time and you are not friends with her, you’re not obligated to invite her.
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