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jessica
VIP May 2008

6 months pregnant my sister still won't talk to me

jessica , on August 24, 2009 at 10:42 PM Posted in Married Life 0 9

Most of you all know that since my hubby and i found out we were pregnant my sister just stoped talking to me its 6 months later and still no word. everyone has told her to get over herself with no luck. With my due date coming up fast do you think my sister will ever come back to meet her one and only newph

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Latest activity by shalliwell, on September 1, 2009 at 1:37 PM
  • L
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    lauren10 ·
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    I might have missed the rest of the story...do you have any idea why she's acting like this?

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  • Lauralee
    Dedicated January 2010
    Lauralee ·
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    I hope that she does come around, because I can tell you that I have no children but I have 2 nephews and 3 nieces and they are my world. I cant imagine never seeing them!!!!

    Do you know why she stopped speaking to you? Have you tried to communicate with her?

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    Devoted August 2009
    amc ·
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    I agree with Lauralee, try breaking the ice with her. If I were her, after this long I would probably just feel ridiculous but not know how to repair the relationship. Unless there is some SERIOUS reason for her to be upset with you, maybe she just needs a little help to get back on the right track?

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  • jessica
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    jessica ·
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    Well most of the resons are this she thinks that I should of never gotten pregnant in the first place b/c she thinks I can't take care of it or myself. she also thinks that she is better then me in every way there are other reason why she thinks i shouldn't have kids but they are to hurtful to go into. she is my older and only sister she is 26 yrs old. her 2 yr behavior.

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  • Laura Kaschak
    Laura Kaschak ·
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    I remember the previous posts about it. As hard as it is, in the end we can't control or change anyone else's actions. If she is choosing to think and behave like this there's nothing you can do about it. Don't waste time worrying yourself over things you have no control over, instead focus on what you can help. Focus on your life, your marriage, your baby. She is your sister, she'll come around eventually. It's a shame she isn't there for you during such a special time, but again that's her choice and you have to accept it. If I recall correctly, your mom had quite a hand in stirring this up between you, telling you everything your sister said about you. Don't put your mom in the middle. Stop giving this attention and it just might work itself out in time. She will eventually see that she was wrong when you prove that you are everything she feared you weren't

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  • FMS, the barefoot wife!
    Master August 2010
    FMS, the barefoot wife! ·
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    I'm sorry she is still acting like that, Hopefully she will come around, the best you can do is just keep her in your life as much as possible, even maybe write her a ltter explaining how you feel and that you do want her part of your life and your son's life. Good luck!

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  • Mrs. Libragurl
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    Mrs. Libragurl ·
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    You want a happy and healthy baby and no stress. Let her come to you.

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  • Kristin
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    Kristin ·
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    I've always found that writing a letter to the person helps me sort out my own feelings, and sometimes helps clear the air. you don't have to give it to her if you don't want to, but it may help you at least feel better about the situation. If you do give it to her, remember not to put all the blame on her, and don't make it nasty. Just tell her how you feel.

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  • shalliwell
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    shalliwell ·
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    I agree with Laura. Your sister will be th eone who suffers latr for missing all of this special time. If she is choosing not to talk to you then i guess so be it. it isunfortunate an di'm sureits hard to take but i woudl focus more on things like you and your husband and your baby. its no one elses decision when yuo get pregnant so hold your head high, you'll do a great job!

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