For the last 6 months, I've been struggling with a specific issue my husband and I have and it's getting worse. He won't listen to my needs. For example, I'll be watching tv in the living room and him and the dog will decide to start wrestling. I'll politely ask him to either go in the backyard or upstairs where it's not noisy during my show, but he'll either completely ignore me or justify it and say "it's not even a big deal" or "what's the big deal you're overreacting." This has gone on for some time now with various scenarios and I've reached a point where I no longer feel like asking nicely the first time because I won't be heard. It'll either end up with me storming out because I've given up or he'll leave the room angry or in a huff. Lately he's been calling me "mean" and "rude" and it's really starting to get to me. On the one hand I feel like a bad wife because he thinks I'm nagging and makes me feel like I'm such a mean person. But on the other hand I'm just trying to be heard and don't know what else to do. Any tips on how to solve this? We talked about it 20 mins ago in the car and he apologized and said he'd try to do better, as well as myself. But I'm just having a hard time letting it go. Any advice is greatly appreciated..
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