Activity for Jess

So my fmil and fsil found out we set a date and decided they want to come. Problem is my fh doesn't want them there because they don't support our relationship. I don't know what to do.

So FH and I are trying to make a list of what we will need for our wedding so we can start saving. What are the must have vendors for your wedding?

I'm having two MOH. My FH is trying to decide on his best man. He's stuck between two very important men in his life. I brought up having two best men if he couldn't pick. He doesn't think it's "traditional", but honestly nothing about our wedding...

I'm looking for a creative way to ask the kids that I want in my wedding (already asked the parents) to be apart of my wedding. I found cute ideas for the bridesmaids but I'm stumped when it comes to the kids! Help?

I really want to have both my cousins as my matron/maid of honor. Has anybody been to a wedding where they have done that?