Activity for Crystal

I've decided to call off the wedding. We're too different in too many ways and we spend more time fighting than we do laughing. We've tried to work out our differences but there are things I need from my partner/husband that he can't do and be for...

I know "everything" is taken care of...but what do I need to bring to my shower? I have a preprinted list of all attendees (so it's easier for someone to write down all of the gifts) and of course my thank you notes and small gifts for my two...