Activity for Mrs. Simmons

I NEED HELP! I have seen so many posts of you ladies getting things for free and I've never been too fond of the computer or very good at finding deals. So, my question is HOW?! Where can I find free invitations or STD's? Stuff like that? blah

Do I have to get/find an officiant?

So, today I sat down and priced most everything out. It's so overwhelming! I know that with only one salary at the moment and more bills than I can even count, it seems like this might not be happening in 9 months. I have been so sad about it....

I'm new to this whole wedding thing and the only one I've been to didn't have either save the dates OR invitations, it was just a family get together. So now I'm wondering if I'm supposed to send out both? How do these work?

I've put our whole love story on mine and every time I click on someones profile they haven't. Too much? hahah

My fiance and I have decided on a vintage theme (I think I'm obsessed) and I have no clue what favors to do! Any suggestions?!