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We are getting married on a cruise ship. Not everyone will be able to come so my thought is to have another small ceromony and reception in the state that I live in my question should we do this before or after our cruise wedding? I'm not quite sure...

We are planning on getting married on a cruise. The wedding must be in port then sail to our honeymoon destionation. My question is does anyone know of a cruise line that has this all inclusive? So far all I have found is you have to book the wedding...