Activity for Goodbye

I always had this dream of an "Elegant" Halloween themed wedding. I'm not talking about candy corn, witches and ghosts, I'm talking about tall, black candelabras, deep red roses, TONS of candle light with little hints of 'creepy' things...A little...

I'm currently making myself a brooch bouquet, right now I'm using all clear crystals, originally I wanted clear and purple but my mom steered me away from the color. So far I have not been happy with the outcome I'm getting and have been considering...