Activity for Denean

Seating charts, place cards, escorts etc etc... im just not so sure if im sold on the idea. It seems like a LOT of work and im not sure if its worth it. I have so many family members who are fighting etc and to figure our who sits with who just...

My wedding is September fourth, which is a long weekend. I sent save the dates out in January so most people know about it already and some have booked their hotel. Im wondering if I send them out early June if this is too early? What do you think?