Activity for soon2be

Thinking colors Can the grooms men wear grey and the Bridesmaids wear pink ( tickled pink DB ) or do I have to think about more fall colors ? Do you try and match the seasons ?

How long after being engaged did you pick your wedding party ? Did you ask them right away or plan a little bit first ?

Is $70.00 per person reasonable in this area ? Anyone have any advise. I would like the $70.00 to almost include everything.