Activity for lovebean

I am finding myself increasingly stressed out about things going smoothly. Somehow I have it in my head that my friends and family will somehow respect me less if things are disorganized. My fiance keeps telling me that I am putting too much pressure...

I need some ideas for an inexpensive way to put together a rehearsal dinner. Our wedding venue is in St. Paul. Neither set of parents can contribute financially and we are stretched so thin already saving all the money ourselves for the wedding...